Your Cure for the Blues?

[Elwood]

So going through my first ever break up (i am a little behind) and wondering what you guys do in order to cure your blues. We all have them, so whats everyone do, embrace it or get over it.

So far Mr. Sinatra is doing good

[Metapher]

As much as it does suck, I usually just stay sad.
But the sadness turns to hate against the girl :D

[Joker]

Been there,more than once time is the only cure.
I do remember video games,beer and movies helping.

[Aurone]

Porn....Specifically, I'd sugjest Brandy Taylor.

[FrighT MasteR]

I found solace in enjoying the comfort of movies and anime. I especially liked purchasing movies :bigthumbup:

[Get Some]

i play basketball during those times

[Misfit]

fuck her best friend:bigthumbup: trust me it helps

[Metapher]

I especially liked purchasing movies :bigthumbup:

I remember being single for a while made me start buying DVDs :bigthumbup:

[Elwood]

I need a job first then i can get onto the buying craze. Got a sweet mask coming sometime this week i am sure that will cheer me up. Music is helping a lot and knowing she made a dumb mistake dumping my ass.

Now i just need to get out more, have some fun i missed out on.

[FrighT MasteR]

Try out the UHM Arcade :bigthumbup:

[Misfit]

:mhehe:

[WarBeast]

I agree with Metapher... Whenever I went through break-ups, I would truly never get over it until I absolutely despised the bitch. Where the very thought of the woman made me wanna puke.

I also suggest beer... nothin like beer to salve a wounded heart.

[smokey]

Get yourself out pal. That was the best way for me to forget about things.

[dead breed]

Take a week or so and listen to some music and feel like crap. Then get together with a few friends and drink some beers and go out. Then just try to keep active after that. Now and then you'll feel sad BUT trust me it'll pass in some shape or form.

GL with it bro :coolbeer:

[Crazy "Tbagz" Ralph]

alcohol, and lots of it
:D

[Misfit]

and if that fails i will lend ya dead breeds girl for awhile.....:bigthumbup: shes not bad in the sack

[Dr. Awesome]

I say fine it's that's what she wants whatever and go back out on the prowl I don't get affected by much I'm very go with the flow plus not enough time in the world to worry about stupid shit like that. She wasn't the one now you know now go out and find the one.

[K.I.N.G]

Keeping myself occupied while listening to Music.

[Wrathborne]

Chocolate cake, Soda(or beer depending how bummed out you are), and some diablo, or Diablo 2 depending on how long you need to play to slaughter some monster ass.

[Driden]

You need a rebound! Sex, friends, music, whatever makes you happy to keep your mind busy.. the only real cure is time but even that wont fully help pending how much you loved her... hell, I know friends who still think of boyfriends of years ago.

You really need a rebound fast or a good FWB.. every huge heart break I had there was always another girl there to make it easier.

[SonOfSavini]

"Women and drink. Too much of either can drive you to the other."
-Michael Still

[Elwood]

Thanks guys, good to know i got you guys.

I am actually feeling good for some reason, i dont know why. It could be the foo fighters since they just make me feel good. Also i met a new friend and she is the best, will keep me busy till i have a job and that can take up the rest of the time.

I dont drink but hell i am even considering that haha.

and Deadbread... pm me for my address so your chick can make it safely:D

[dead breed]

Thanks guys, good to know i got you guys.

I am actually feeling good for some reason, i dont know why. It could be the foo fighters since they just make me feel good. Also i met a new friend and she is the best, will keep me busy till i have a job and that can take up the rest of the time.

I dont drink but hell i am even considering that haha.

and Deadbread... pm me for my address so your chick can make it safely:D

:whip: :D

[xxsic4slipknotxx]

Games are a great stress reliever for me, especially the ones where I get to kill things. :D

When I'm blue, or at least bored, I like taking long drives to areas I haven't been before.

[Misfit]

and Deadbread... pm me for my address so your chick can make it safely:D

:mhehe:

[ASoron0424]

I always found something weirdly theraputic about the Rocky movies.

Other than that, I'd say spend a lot of time with your friends. But don't bring them down with your misery.

[xxsic4slipknotxx]

I'd say spend a lot of time with your friends. But don't bring them down with your misery.


That annoys the hell out of me.

[Luris Blear]

I guess I'm lucky. I never had an ex that was worth getting upset over.

My advice is to be glad she went away before she could make things any worse. No point in hating her -- sounds like she did you a favor.

[toxicangel19]

I go all Alanis Morrisette (oughta know) and get even with the dirt bag...i did that before i got married..

[violent d]

I say fine it's that's what she wants whatever and go back out on the prowl I don't get affected by much I'm very go with the flow plus not enough time in the world to worry about stupid shit like that. She wasn't the one now you know now go out and find the one.

You know I was going to say the same thing. People get to hung up on depending on other people for happiness. Just do whatever made you happy before you got with her and forget about the bitch.

[Elwood]

ah but that is the problem... she was what made me happy.

[violent d]

So you were never happy before you met her?:scratch: Im not trying to sound like a dildo its just I grew up in some fucked up shit that has made me realize that something like a relationship gone bad aint that big a deal.

Im not good at giving advice cause it usually makes me sound like an ass but all I can tell you to do is step outside, take a deep breath of air,look around and realize your still young and things can always be a lot worse.

[Elwood]

Was i depressed? no. but for years i generally wasnt happy with life.

But your right i am trying to get out now and realize that a relationship shouldnt be my only source of happiness because they may not last and then what do you have?

I am feeling good, life is hard but i am sure i will be fine

[toxicangel19]

Was i depressed? no. but for years i generally wasnt happy with life.

But your right i am trying to get out now and realize that a relationship shouldnt be my only source of happiness because they may not last and then what do you have?

I am feeling good, life is hard but i am sure i will be fine


when my dad starts feeling like a monk i tell him not to worry because he still has world of warcraft and his kids.....the ironi thing is my mother lives next door to him and they dont get along....but he still bangs her i think.....:D

[Snuggle]

Fuck 7 other chicks, your ex-girlfriend won't seem to special to you then. :D

In all seriousness do shit you enjoy. Don't stay inside too long. Go out with friends, party, go to hooters and flirt with the waitresses. Surround yourself with friends and you should be feeling better in no time.

[LordofDarkness]

You will eventually grow a hate as time passes by and realize how much of a DA she is for dumping you. Also, playing games will keep your mind off it. Hang out with your friends, and talk about it with your best friend. Always made me feel better. Do something fun and let her know your doing it, that way she'll regret what she done and she will regret missing out on it. But the big key is your friends. Just chill with them for awhile and you'll be ok.

[koolmike]

Find comfort in the fact that two people who aren't meant to be, have found out sooner than later. Nothing worse than wasted time. Plenty of other women out there to meet and have fun with.

[Elwood]

good advice mike... i already spent two years not hanging out with friends in order to be around in order to talk to her through the internet. However now i am catching up for that, been out all day with my new friends and having fun. Also hit the gym with them which makes me feel better.

[JeNnYFuR]

I say that you have to be happy with yourself first, before you can be happy with someone else. Pick up a hobby, learn something new, or work on something about yourself that you think needs improvement and be content with yourself. You'll find that you're not thinking about the break up and you'll be a better person for the next one.

[Gatsu18]

Find someone to give you head and tell you nice things about yourself, but not wants to be with you. Preferabley one with a boyfriend already. Works for me. But then again i wouldn't suggest my methoods for everyone.

[JerkyPuck]

I understand that she is what made you happy, and that's a void you need to fill, but another girl can't fill that. You have to be happy with yourself. So think back to before. Was there anything about yourself that you loved and took for granted or backburnered when this chick entered the picture? If so, rediscover that. If not, it's time to discover what it is about YOU that makes you happy. Don't look anywhere else, because you will never truly be happy in life until you can be happy alone. Then seek out someone to love. You'll be fine. Just hang in dude.